Q I’m so upset over a man I love. He is seeing someone else but still dates me, I am heartbroken and don’t know what to do. I know I should get sense but It’s very hard when you are in love. Any advice would be much appreciated. Catherine
AI’m so very sorry for you, you sound so sad. It’s not only sense but self respect you need Catherine, you will only drive yourself MAD by letting him treat you like that…as my sister in San Francisco always says about men, the screwing you get ain’t worth the screwing you get! I know it’s so terribly hard but, never knowing where he is or who he’s with when he’s not with you – that is worse than being without him. Two men I dated cheated on me and I got rid of them both IMMEDIATELY but continued to be friendly with them. They were both staggered by the fact that I remained friends with them as they then thought I wasn’t upset and that REALLY hurt their egos…best revenge ever! They both asked me to go back to them but not a chance…once a cheater, always a cheater and I have never once regretted my decision on either count. Courage Catherine, I know it’s very hard but don’t make dirt of yourself, you’ll be glad at the end of the day. Good luck!
Two men I dated cheated on me and I got rid of them both IMMEDIATELY but continued to be friendly with them. Tina Koumarianos