I have just recently found out my girlfriend has been sleeping with my dad behind my back and my mums. They both said its was just a bit of fun and don’t want me to tell mum and my girlfriend wants to continue our relationship like nothing has happened. I don’t know what to do, I love her to bits but still feel so hurt that’s she been with my dad.
Any advice would help, do I tell my Mum and break my family up or do I try and forgive her.
I BET they don’t want you to tell Mum! And I wouldn’t…for the time being but this comes with conditions…
Firstly, and I know you don’t want to do it, get rid of your so called girlfriend…she’s NO friend of yours or your family. Trust me, you would spend the rest of your days wondering where they were if they were both missing at the same time and it will inevitably break up your home.
Now to your father, you tell him the ONLY reason you are not telling your mother – his wife – is because you know it would break her heart and break up the family home but…if you ever even suspect he is seeing this girl or playing away in any shape or form you will personally see to it that he leaves the family home without one item to his name and from now on you want to see as much attention lavished on your mother as he was clearly able to spend on YOUR ex girlfriend.
Firstly, and I know you don’t want to do it, get rid of your so called girlfriend…she’s NO friend of yours or your family. Tina Koumarianos